I broke up with my girlfriend. Right or wrong?

[CasaNova]

Dude, if you consider yourself anything remotely close to a decent muslim, then you = retarded for letting a girl like that go. She's sticking to her values and beliefs WHICH YOU HAPPEN TO SHARE.

I would post more, but i'm trying to control my e-anger, lately,

[Phamous]

hjj guys, after 1 year i broke it with my girlfriend. she didnt let me kiss her, she didnt want a hug now new rule: she dont want to come to my house anymore. why? she says its written in kuran zo. we are both muslim, but come on? its 2010, even a kiss? she said i love you very much, but we need to merry first. so she loves me, thats not the reason. yesterday i said, i dont want this relationship anymore

was i right? actually if she didnt wanted to kiss with me, then she also didnt do it with some other guy, so she is a nice girl actually. we study both at the university.

what do you guys think?

Religion is religion, so it's your fault for being a horny creep.

[Kenos]

It all depends on your relations to her, if I were in your shoes I'd do the same

[l0calh0st]

If you are 23 why don't you merry?

Btw: in which medieval country do you live?

[EsotorisK]

The thing which you wanted is sex, sex and sex.

Oh come one man we know that it is 21st century but you should not do like this to a girl who loves you and wants to marry you only.

I don't want to give valid lectures because you already broke and if I say something you might feel bad, so good luck in future dude.

[Whoo]

Just give her dad a call and ask like "Yo man, I wanna marry your daughter aight maaan"

^LOL don't do it like that, but it could actually work... that is, IF you want this girl.

[CM]

I fucking ROFLMAOLOL'd. Screw that shit, it's obvious that your religion needs to /update. Anyway, you must be fucked up in the head posting your problem here. It's a stupid bitch and you're both following a backward religion. How about you do something about it and save the advice making threads?

[SplitIce]

maybe shes overly devote?

some girls are that it may be a pain but they'll never leave you

on a lighter note atheists don't have this problem

So true, while I have no problem with other peoples religions (Your beliefs are YOUR beliefs) most of these rules where made for reasons not applicable in todays society. We live in a much more free and liberal society now days, and people in my opinion should get with the times.




As to whether you did the right thing, no one can answer that but yourself. Asking a bunch of random people on an internet forum is taking the easy way out.

[desiboy]

Love should be mutual .
so if you want to kiss her , she should allow you to kiss. and even you have to respect her feelings .
just tell her that you kissing her wont make her pregnant , kissing is not a Taboo .

[ipowerz]

you are lucky that she loves you