it works as i planned, not bad for a noob. 1 prob, its not blacklisting heres m y code:

PHP Code: 
function linkback($link$ururl)  
{  
    
$ch curl_init($link);  
    
curl_setopt($chCURLOPT_RETURNTRANSFER1);  
    
curl_setopt($chCURLOPT_HEADER0);  
    
curl_setopt($chCURLOPT_FOLLOWLOCATION1);  
    
curl_setopt($chCURLOPT_USERAGENT'Opera/9.80 (Windows NT 5.1; U; en) Presto/2.7.62 Version/11.01');  
    
$page curl_exec($ch);  
    
curl_close($ch); 
    if (
stripos($page,$ururl)===false
      return 
false
    else 
      return 
true;
}

$ururl "http://warezrelease.org";

$reason "Add our linkback, then email us.";

$date date("d-m-Y");

  if(
linkback($surl,$ururl)==true)
  {
mysql_query("INSERT INTO wcddl_queue (sid,title,type,url) VALUES ('".mysql_real_escape_string($sid)."','".mysql_real_escape_string($titles[$i])."','".mysql_real_escape_string($types[$i])."','".mysql_real_escape_string($urls[$i])."')");
  }
  else
  {
  die(
'We cant find our link on your site, please add it.');
   
  
$b mysql_query("INSERT INTO wcddl_blacklist VALUES ('".mysql_real_escape_string($surl)."','".mysql_real_escape_string($reason)."','".mysql_real_escape_string($date)."','".mysql_real_escape_string($email)."')");
  } 
can some1 take a look.